It's no wonder these "modern"
parented babies now need harsh training and "expert" advice
in order to sleep. Yet, nature has a wonderful plan that helps infants
easily fall asleep.
Forced isolation at bedtime is very
stressful for infants. We know this from the almost universal fretful
crying pleas against this abandonment. This chronic stress contributes
to lifelong elevation of the stress hormone cortisol.
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Parents Sleep Too The truth is, most parents get more sleep
following natures plan. Still half asleep, mother may need to
assist baby a bit when he nudges to nurse, but then the restful hormones
released in mother and child through nursing lull both gently back
to sleep. There is no waking to piercing hunger cries, adrenalin now
surging through everyones veins; preparing the bottle; attempting
to stay awake while feeding baby; attempting to put the now drowsier
baby back down on a cold mattress promoting more adrenalin
as baby loses his cozy place and cries once more; then trying to return
to sleep again, dreading the next call.
Remember Babies dont turn off at night. We can see this
as the co-sleeping baby will keep at least one foot in contact with
one parent throughout the entire night. When baby awakens alone in
a crib, and no protector is nearby, he learns to lower his trust in
his caretakers. Parents dont turn off at night either. Just
as a healthy parent never falls out of bed or loses her pillow, she
is aware of the babys presence. She is also there to respond
should the baby be in physical distress, and to protect should there
be an emergency in the home.

Awakenings
A baby in the family bed arouses to less-deep sleep states and short
awakenings throughout the night, as the parental body helps to provide
this proper regulation. It is known that this is very important
in the prevention of SIDS. It has been shown that prolonged deep
states of sleep, as occur after long bouts of crying, or when sleeping
alone, are a major cause of SIDS. Most parents will prefer these healthy
light arousals as they sleep, to climbing out of bed in response to
loud crying bursts.
Danger in the Bed? Thorough studies that separate out statistics
for smoking parents suggest that baby sleep in the non-smoking parental
bed for best survival. A reported finding
that 60 U.S. babies per year die in parental beds from entrapment
or overlying was hugely publicized. Compare this to 3,000 U.S. SIDS
deaths per year overall. SIDS
rates are shown to be reduced with cosleeping, but this statistic
doesn't make the news. Entrapment and suffocation deaths and injuries
were once very high for crib sleeping infants, and still occur at a
lower, but not always reported rate. The solution was to make the crib
safer, not to throw out the baby. Family beds can be made safe from
entrapment as well. Alcohol and drug use, are risk factors for overlying.
Most Dangerous Parental smoking, whether in the bedroom or
not, (toxins come out of the lungs through the night), is a high
SIDS risk factor for co-sleeping. SIDS rates appear high in adult
beds overall when this factor is not removed from the statistics.
Prone to Danger As parents were encouraged through the last century to bottle-feed
and place baby in a separate room at night, a new problem developed
of frequent, loud bouts of crying during the night. It was then discovered
that laying a baby prone (on tummy) to sleep greatly reduced babys
awakenings during the night. We now know that this action has caused
countless SIDS deaths, and it is no longer recommended. A baby nursing
next to mother at night naturally sleeps on its side or back, in a
position where it can nurse. Some spend time tummy-down on a parents
(convex) chest. In this position, the brain stem is less impinged
than on a flat mattress, and breathing and heartbeat are regulated
by the parental cues.
Quotes from Baby Matters:
"It's no wonder these "modern"
parented babies now need harsh training and "expert" advice
in order to sleep. Yet, nature has a wonderful plan that helps infants
easily fall asleep."
"Forced isolation at bedtime is very
stressful for infants. We know this from the almost universal fretful
crying pleas against this abandonment. This chronic stress contributes
to lifelong elevation of the stress hormone cortisol."
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